When I’m transferred to Okinawa this summer, Ben will come along, but at our expense because the Defense of Marriage Act prohibits him from being listed officially as my spouse or dependent. We filmed this video a couple months ago for Freedom to Marry to talk about how DOMA affects us.
Work in Progress 
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For those of you who aren’t familiar, check out Matthew and Ben’s video of how it will negatively impact them. It’s time for a change!